Bids for Connection

Recognizing and responding to the small moments that build intimacy

Bids for connection are the fundamental units of emotional communication. They are the small, often subtle ways we reach for one another throughout the day.

When to Use This Practice

  • When connection feels thin

  • When conflict feels frequent

  • As a daily awareness practice

Who This Is For

  • Couples at any stage

  • Individuals wanting stronger relational awareness

  • Therapists and facilitators teaching connection skills